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#1 User is offline   dokhtare pulegun Icon

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Posted 22 July 2008 - 12:27 AM

Is anyone here married? Did you marry a Tajik? Does anyone here plan on marrying a Tajik?

The more Tajik guys I meet.. the more the prospects of me marrying a Tajik lessen. Honestly, why are so many of them creepy, or "players", or just plain jerks!? And the good ones, why are they always taken? ;_;

Sorry, this is just kind of a rant. I understand it goes for guys of every ethnic background but still... This is probably why I will end up marrying a non-Tajik.
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Posted 22 July 2008 - 12:34 AM

Maybe you have a high level of expectation of Tajikmen?This will always lead to disappointment....
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Posted 22 July 2008 - 12:36 AM

You are probably right. But doesn't every girl want her man to be college-educated, kind, funny, handsome, and so forth? >_>
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Posted 22 July 2008 - 12:44 AM

That's true. But if these are the things you care about, then you should be able to marry an American guy.
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Posted 22 July 2008 - 12:48 AM

That seems more realistic, to be honest :

Are you married, Manizheh?
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Posted 22 July 2008 - 12:55 AM

No. I'm not.

Why does it seems more realistic?
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Posted 22 July 2008 - 01:07 AM

[QUOTE=Manizheh;11839]That's true. But if these are the things you care about, then you should be able to marry an American guy.[/QUOTE]

That is not always true. I am a college-educated, MBA students, kind, handsome, go in for sports, and so forth and will marry a Tajik girl after graduating and returning to Tajikistan.

So, it just a pity that we did not meet each other..


....or..maybe it is still not too late...(?)..
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Posted 22 July 2008 - 01:13 AM

[QUOTE=Dushanbe;11844]That is not always true. I am a college-educated, MBA students, kind, handsome, go in for sports, and so forth and will marry a Tajik girl after graduating and returning to Tajikistan.

So, it just a pity that we did not meet each other..[/QUOTE]

What's not true?


When I said" that's true", I was agree with the things she mentioned about girls wanting from boys.
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Posted 22 July 2008 - 01:16 AM

[QUOTE=Manizheh;11845]What's not true?


When I said" that's true", I was agree with the things she mentioned about girls wanting from boys.
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No all girls want that. Poeple have different tastes. Or do you mean that all girls are the same?
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Posted 22 July 2008 - 01:57 AM

Dushanbe, are you saying that no education, mean, unfunny, and ugly are traits that girls find attractive? Lol....

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Why does it seems more realistic?

Because I get along better with American guys rather than Tajik guys :
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Posted 22 July 2008 - 02:14 AM

Let us have a dating thread :D Where all the fun happens :) ... at least on paper. But Nader Shah will just watch ;) as he has his own date :)
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Posted 22 July 2008 - 04:51 AM

[QUOTE=dokhtare pulegun;11831]... This is probably why I will end up marrying a non-Tajik.[/QUOTE]


Do not do it, dokhtar...
I am sure, that 99% Tajik boys dream to marry the Tajik girl. And you too will be soon found by your prince. It is a pity, that I already married, if I was not married, I would try to win your heart. :cool:
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Posted 22 July 2008 - 04:54 AM

Maybe you only had bad luck. However, I am sure there are plenty of good Tajiks that you are not aware of. Anyhow, generalization in this regard would be completely wrong.




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[QUOTE=dokhtare pulegun;11831]Is anyone here married? Did you marry a Tajik? Does anyone here plan on marrying a Tajik?

The more Tajik guys I meet.. the more the prospects of me marrying a Tajik lessen. Honestly, why are so many of them creepy, or "players", or just plain jerks!? And the good ones, why are they always taken? ;_;

Sorry, this is just kind of a rant. I understand it goes for guys of every ethnic background but still... This is probably why I will end up marrying a non-Tajik.[/QUOTE]
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Posted 22 July 2008 - 06:41 AM

[QUOTE=dokhtare pulegun;11849]Dushanbe, are you saying that no education, mean, unfunny, and ugly are traits that girls find attractive? Lol....


Because I get along better with American guys rather than Tajik guys :[/QUOTE]

No, I am not saying that. But "some" girls like that.
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Posted 22 July 2008 - 06:46 AM

By marrying a non persian, your kids will end up being non persian, non persian speaker and non persian culture. I am sure we dont want this.
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Posted 22 July 2008 - 06:54 AM

Although, I think marriage is private responsibility of every individual and every individual is free whatever choice he/she makes. Yet, personally I think I will marry Persian girl (CA Persian (Tajik), Irani, Khorasani dokhtar), if I will be lucky enough to live that day. ;) I do agree with RK that it will have significant impact on preserving our culture and identity so in future we can pass it to our children and grandchildren.



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[QUOTE=Rika Khana;11887]By marrying a non persian, your kids will end up being non persian, non persian speaker and non persian culture. I am sure we dont want this.[/QUOTE]
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Posted 22 July 2008 - 02:46 PM

[QUOTE=dokhtare pulegun;11849]Dushanbe, are you saying that no education, mean, unfunny, and ugly are traits that girls find attractive? Lol....


Because I get along better with American guys rather than Tajik guys :[/QUOTE]


The reason why you get along better with American guys, could be because you share the same culture. Or you live in two difference cultures, one of them with quite stringent rules and lots of influence of the religion Islam. So it's not very unrealistic that you get along much easier with the one with an American culture. (a free culture).
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Posted 22 July 2008 - 02:56 PM

[QUOTE=PORS;11864]Maybe you only had bad luck. However, I am sure there are plenty of good Tajiks that you are not aware of. Anyhow, generalization in this regard would be completely wrong.




Pors.[/QUOTE]

Living in a foreign country makes it difficult to be choosy, when it comes to selecting your compatriot husband. You can't call this, her badluck, if she didn't meet the right one yet. There's a small chance of opportunities to meet these guys (girls), and not forget to mention, most of them have a poor image of tajik girls, who are living in the western part.
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Posted 22 July 2008 - 03:39 PM

You would be right if she was from Tajikistan or Afghanistan, but she is originally from Iran, or has major relatives in Iran, as far as I know. So, in this case, it's about luck. But as I mentioned, there are many good CA Persians abroad and at home and surely some of them here in this forum. :)



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[QUOTE=Manizheh;11942]Living in a foreign country makes it difficult to be choosy, when it comes to selecting your compatriot husband. You can't call this, her badluck, if she didn't meet the right one yet. There's a small chance of opportunities to meet these guys (girls), and not forget to mention, most of them have a poor image of tajik girls, who are living in the western part.[/QUOTE]
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Posted 22 July 2008 - 03:43 PM

What do you think of not marrying at all? :rolleyes:
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